Healthy Relationships Plus Program Skills for Effective Relationships

There are a wide range of clips to choose from that include topics such as: peer pressure, substance use, school stressors, interpersonal conflict, dating relationships, etc. It is important to review clips in advance of showing them to students so that appropriate clips are chosen for the group of students in the group as well as the topics being discussed. The sessions identify when it would be an appropriate time to show a clip.

These clips are organized into three sections. Part I focuses on demonstrating communication skills including assertive, passive and aggressive communication. Part II focuses on demonstrating skills that include delay, refusal and negotiation skills and Part III focuses on a combination of skills.

Note: Any scenario # that shows a * beside it is a clip that was most recently created by students (2015).

PART I - Assertive, Passive, Aggressive Communication Skills

Scenario 1* Trying to get someone to post a picture of another person from a party

Scenario 2* Choosing a partner over friend

Scenario 3* Trying to break up a relationships by spreading a rumour

Scenario 4* Exclusion from sleepover

Scenario 5* Making fun of someone with a disability

Scenario 6 Accusation of partner cheating

Scenario 7 Pressure to share homework

Scenario 8 Discussion with partner about cheating

Scenario 9* Accusations of cheating

Scenario 10 First Nations student late to class because she was smudging and is target of racial comments

Scenario 11 Ditching friend for another friend

Scenario 12 Making fun of friend's Aboriginal culture

Scenario 13* Friend has a gaming addiction and isn't completing school work because of it

Scenario 14* Trying to convince friend to smoke weed

Scenario 15* Trying to convince a friend to meet up with someone from a dating app

Scenario 16 One friend trying to convince another to get high at a party

Scenario 17 One friend concerned about other friend's alcohol use and the impact on school work

Scenario 18 Accusing partner of drinking too much and flirting with others

Scenario 19 Trying to get friend to steal weed from parent who deals drugs

Scenario 20* Accusation of cheating on partner

Scenario 21* Internet nudes/pornography

Scenario 22* Homophobic language about someone on their basketball team

Scenario 23* Pressure for intimacy